I remember coming home from school when I was in one of the early grades first or second grade, and I was crying to my mom because my friend that I played with all the time just came up and said "I don't like you anymore." I was so broken-hearted.
Rejection is hard and when there's no reason for it it's even harder but it happens to all of us at one point or another. I was thinking about this when I wrote the poem below.
Not everyone will like you
Ever since I was little I remember coming home
And telling my mom “she doesn't like me anymore” and feeling all alone.
Acceptance by friends is something we long for from the start.
And it's hard when people don't like us and break our hearts.
But not everyone will like you and sometimes there's not a reason why.
We can hate them back or we can pray for them to God on high.
Acceptance has never been a guarantee in fact, God warned us long ago
That we would be rejected by the world and have foes.
No not everyone will like you and that is a fact of life.
It's easier to hate another sometimes then make our pride a sacrifice.
We all want acknowledgment and sometimes we do it at the cost of others.
But that's not the way God's people act toward their sisters and their brothers.
So next time you're in a situation and you don't know why this person hates you so,
Pray for them and give it to God, walk away and let It go.
Be his light to all men and show that you love them even if
They betray you and try to get you in a tiff.
At the end of the day that kind of toxicity hurts them more than you.
So just pray for them to be freed from their negative point of view.
We are God's people and we have a higher call.
So just give your heart’s hurt to him and He will take care of it all.
© 2025 Sandra C Johnson